The hidden crisis of masculinity fuels emotional struggles and violence

Public awareness of violence against women has grown in recent years. Alongside this shift, more attention is now being paid to the struggles men face—particularly in areas like emotional regulation and social expectations. Writers, activists, and researchers have long highlighted the pressures tied to traditional masculinity. Decades ago, author Marguerite Duras observed the complexities of loving men in a society shaped by rigid gender roles. Her words still resonate today, as many men grapple with expectations of power, dominance, and aggression. These ideals often contribute to emotional struggles, including poor anger management and low emotional competence—traits frequently seen in perpetrators of violence.

The issue has gained visibility partly through high-profile cases involving men like Ulmen, Weißmann, Seiler, Pelicot, and Eppstein. Their actions have brought male degradation into public discussion. Meanwhile, mental health professionals note that men's socialisation often reinforces harmful behaviours, with gendered mental health challenges going unaddressed. In Graz, Christian Scambor co-founded a men's counselling service 30 years ago. The organisation now assists around 2,000 men each year across Styria and Burgenland. Scambor also leads national and EU-wide projects focused on men's studies and gender equality. His work comes as violence protection centres, such as the one in Burgenland, report rising cases of digital abuse. Despite progress, the male ideal remains tied to strength and control. This persistence complicates efforts to reshape societal attitudes and support healthier forms of masculinity.

The conversation around men's roles in violence and mental health is expanding. Counselling services and research projects aim to address deep-seated issues, from emotional repression to abusive behaviour. As public awareness grows, so does the need for structured support—both for victims and for men seeking to break free from harmful patterns.